Would You Like To Meet A Woman?

            
             You know, guys question me about "meeting women " and "how to pick up women " and equivalent things frequently .

But the fact of the matter for all of these kind of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better advice than good old "experience".

But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to attract women?"

You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I wrote my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.

I guess I should explain. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sanely selecting a partner.

Now I would be the first one to admit that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no goal of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.

However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and consistent interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.

What do you think most parents told their teen sons and daughters?

They said: "Don't get serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯

Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.

First of all, most adults never followed their parent's advice and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of connecting with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.

Unfortunately, there is a difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also unfortunately most people usually continue this pattern of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.

We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the last analysis it leads to unhappiness in relationships, and a failure to understand the opposite sex.

Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.

Most of us didn't even understand our own personality and what what would be a good match for us. We founded our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.

The cure is elementary. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later, you figure it out for yourself. It's a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.

And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out there and got a lot of experience.

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